Tuesday, February 16, 2021

My journey in life.

 

My Journey as a Teacher.

A new job is like a blank book and you are the author. My Journey as a Teacher begins right after the completion of my two years teacher training course from July 1988 to June 1990, offered by Teacher Training College, Paro. Quite uncertain of the road not taken, I relied at the sight of stars to guide me to my destination and accomplish my journey. I lifted my maiden step with my placement order to Thungkhar Primary School, Trashigang in July 1990. 


Teacher Training College, Paro 1988-1990


15th of July 1990 was the day I was welcomed to a new place of my initial posting as a permanent professional teacher where I would start the journey of my career, hope and something great. Preceding to that I have an unforgettable moment during the journey to Thungkhar. I had some mixed feelings. I was excited and little depressed. I was excited because I was coming across newer experiences as well as I was going to join as a permanent teacher but also I was little depressed because I had to leave my wife and seven months old daughter behind, at Samtse. Although both of us, my wife and I were to work on the same ministry, we were not given appointment in the school nearby. However, I had no any other better option than to go to Thungkhar.

                                                         Thungkhar Pry School 1990


I started my journey with few little and necessary items that I could carry to Thungkhar. July normally is a peak rainy season in most part of Bhutan. Slushy road and wet atmosphere made the journey bit unpleasant as I was worried if we got stranded on the way due to road blocks. I was travelling from Samdrupjongkhar to Wamrong on the second day. If you have full faith on God, He will be at your side; no amount of obstacle can stop you at any time. Fortunately, I met one Dzongkha Language Teacher (DLT) in the same bus I was travelling. He was working in Wamrong Junior High School. My feeling of solitude and dejection reduced by meeting him. After our brief introduction I felt more homely as if I met my old and bosom friend. He was so kind and open hearted person that he told me everything about the route to Thungkhar. In a short period of time we developed so much of trust in each other that he even offered me a space to keep my stuff in his house which would be lifted in few days time. It was already noon when I reached Wamrong. It was raining cats and dogs. I was in dilemma whether to continue the journey or halt there. Suddenly I remembered a teacher, senior to me, who was working in Wamrong. I decided to put up with him that evening. Inquiring about his residence I reached his house.  Spent the night there with his gracious hospitality for which I was so grateful. The weather condition was no better than the previous day. It was still pouring down when I woke up in the crack of next day dawn. There was no alternative but to accept it, face it, and move on till I embrace the destination. I was thoroughly explained about the route. With full confidence and spirit I set out with a back-pack and an umbrella sliding slippery and muddy downhill path, following my sacred place of posting. There was no sign of subsidence of the downpour. I was partially drenched in the shower. In addition to this obscurity of the weather condition I began to sense another inconvenience and that was the language, which I did not know how to communicate with the local people and inquire about my destination since it was my first visit to the eastern part of Bhutan where they speak Sarchhokpa kha. I just followed the instructions provided by the DLT and my senior teacher about the route. I was unable to confirm and clarify with anyone on the way due to lack of language to communicate whether I was following the right way or not. I used to ask them with sign language "Thungkhar?” Somehow people used to decipher my hand gesture and give direction to follow the path. Following their directions I descended downhill, crossed a bridge and took right-turn from the bridge over Badanadi. I felt quite relieved when I caught the sight of some structures in a cluster at a distance from the hillock. That was Thunkhar Primary School!! After reaching the school gate I changed my wet clothes and sneaked into the school compound. I didn't know who all were there but to my surprise there were some of my colleagues, almost of my age. I felt so relaxed and homely. It was wonderful and joyous moment meeting friends after a very tedious and tough journey. 

 The next day, I was offered warm welcome to Thungkhar Primary School family. A sumptuous welcome lunch was hosted by the Headmaster, Mr. Laxman Chhetri and his wife Mrs.Deepa Pradhan. Mr. Chhetri was very kind, helpful and understanding person who provided me all the necessary arrangements and made me feel homely even in such remote place.

 There were not enough teachers’ quarters, so the teachers, mostly bachelors, had been staying together. I was too asked to join the group. In the group were Mr. Nepal, Health Assistant from BHU and two teachers from the same school, Mr. Siwan Rai and Mr. Dey. They had a mess together, assisted by one of the students, Master Tshewang, who used to manage all the household chores. We had a good time together but I had a number of funny incidences due to lack of local dialect, Sarchhopkha, which sometimes made me feel quite nostalgic. However, I never faced much of overcast in my state of mind because of lively colleagues together.

 

I was slowly getting adjusted to the environment and the system. Happy go lucky was the life. It’s the law of nature that we do not live the same day over and over again and call that a life. Life keeps evolving mentally, spiritually and emotionally. With a bolt from the blue, there came news about my daughter’s sickness and I had to rush immediately to Samste. Without any delay I reached Samtse. I was bit stress-free then when I came to know that the baby had been better than before. Quite unperturbed, I had a plan to return to school the next day. To my greatest disappointment, when I woke up the next day, there was a curfew in Samtse and everything was in chaos. We were stationed in the school campus. The movement had been prohibited by the Dzongkhag administration. The school got closed and some children were evacuated to Tsimalakha while the rest were sent to their respective homes. All the staff, including my wife was asked to report to Education Headquarters, Thimphu. The situation made me so agitated and alarmed that I was unable to picture out anything in my mind. We managed to dump our household belongings in one of our relatives’ house and left for Thimphu. We were escorted by the defense personals till Phuentsholing. It was a terrible journey with a small baby of nine months inclusive of all bags and baggage.

Education Headquarters forwarded my wife’s relocated appointment to Yonphula in Zone Four which was against our will. Although, Thungkhar Primary School fell in the same Zone it was very inconvenient for us to live at a distant location with a baby in the lap. It was so torturing to think about the agony of separation that we have had then. With our heavy heart we reached Trashigang and put up in one of our cousin’s place. We managed to attend the office in Yonphula from Trashigang and appealed for change of location and provide our posting together in one place. At last, with much appealing, we got placed in Lhuntse Junior High School. We willingly took this placement as it was better for us to be posted in one place and live together although it was a remote area. After obtaining our placement order I went to Thungkhar, picked up my belongings and started our journey to Lhuntse to join Lhuntse Junior high School.

 

                                                                 Lhuntse Jr. High School 1991

It was another adventurous but memorable journey to Lhuntse. We boarded the Samdrupjongkhar bus to Mongar. After we reached Mongar in the evening we were shocked to know that the road to Lhuntse had been blocked for last three months and was to open the next day of our arrival. The next day we woke up early and looked for conveyance. Fortunately, there was a black BGTS Tata truck parked and was getting ready to move for Lhuntse. We loaded our bags and baggage on to the truck and set out our journey to Lhuntse. The journey by a truck, sitting at the back in the open was horrific. One cannot imagine the chill and piercing cold of October month sitting at the back of a truck shivering, with a small baby of nine months on our lap. On top of that we were completely worn-out by the jerks and jumps of the truck when it rolled over the rugged road. However, we were happy for we were on a vehicle at least otherwise there was no any other means of transportation to Lhuntse. I still remember there were only two vehicles in Lhuntse when I first joined my work. One was the hospital ambulance and the other was the Dzongkhag Hilux. We were dead exhausted and cramped when we reached Lhuntse at about 12.30 midday. We looked not better than a labourer who works in a cement factory. We were completely tarnished by the dust and frozen by the chill cold. Cluttering and biting our teeth and shivering we got down from the truck. As we were unable to carry our belongings at this hour we looked for a house nearby. We came across the Post Office. We called out if anyone was inside. To my surprise, there appeared a person who was the temporary postmaster. He told the postmaster Mr. B.D.Sharma from Chhuka is due to join soon and he was no other than my cousin. It was a great relief for us. I introduced myself and we were provided the space for our things and started climbing up to the school.

It was understood that the principal had left for somewhere few hours ago but still we climbed up to his residence. It was Mr.Moktan; the Headmaster of the school, who was away.   We went straight to the Headmasters house and met Mrs.Renuka Subba better half of the principal. She was another great human being who was so caring and understanding. They understood our most important need of a shelter initially.  We were provided a room in their quarters till a house would be found. We stayed with them for two nights and shifted to an empty hut belonging to  Ap Dorji, Dzongkhag LDC in Dangrey.

                Lhuntse Jr. High School 1991

 

It was 31st October, 1990 my wife and I joined Lhuentse Junior High School. We were happy as we could work in the same school and live a united family. But, the life was not as comfortable as in Samtse and Trashigang. Getting a better house with decent roof was difficult. We were residing in a bamboo hut. After few days we noticed lots of hard blister-like sores on our child’s body. We were so worried and took her to the hospital. There as another  great human who then said was there in Lhuntshe for 22 years already working  for the  Leprosy mission . Hats of to him for all the dedication he have  had for Bhutanese. He was no other than Mr. Prem Subba. He was very experienced some times  more than a doctor. He examined and declared that it was flea bites. We never knew about the fleas in the house. We  knew fleas would be with dogs and cats back home. We were unable to protect the child from the fleas. There appeared more and more blisters and it deteriorated the child’s health. So, we decided to take the child to Chengmari, Samtse  during our winter vacation and leave there with her grandparents. It was so painful and heart aching to leave the child in that manner. But we had no option, the situation demanded that.

Lhuntse was a place where one had to manage meals with limited food items. Getting basic grocery items and vegetables was another challenge. Cheese, dry wild mushrooms, spring onion, garlic, and chilies appeared seldom in the locality. We were unfamiliar with the Nakey (fern shoots), Pacha (cane shoots) and Damru (Elatostema lineolatum ‘botanical name’). We had to be happy and satisfied with potato and few other items that were available and familiar with. Later, I developed a small kitchen garden and grew our own vegetables of our choice. Most of our colleagues used to manage with dry fish but it was of no use for a vegetarian like me. 

Lhuentse was one of the remote boarding schools with more than three hundred students. The students were very simple and obedient. They were very helpful, polite and humble. They used to rush to volunteer for any kind of works, be it school’s or personal. Those days there was no abundant supply of LPG cylinders. None of us had gas cylinders and there was no electricity either to cook our food. So, the students used to collect firewood from the nearby forest for the teachers every weekend. In return we used to provide them good lunch, some toiletries, clothes or gift them with wristwatches, shoes and slippers when we were back from winter vacation. We did not have much money to give them tips, more over it had no value as there were not many shops nearby to spend. There was a good team of staff as well. I enjoyed working with the colleagues there. I remember of being 22 with most of the  teachers from India.   

Sometimes Lhuentse used to be cut off from the rest of the Dzongkhag, especially during monsoon season. The road to Lhuentse used to remain blocked for months due to landslides. Availing transportation from there was to have head in the clouds. We used to see a passenger transport once in a blue moon and that was  a black BGTS truck that used to make rounds between Lhuentse and Mongar. There was a Dzongkhag Hilux and an ambulance in the name of motor vehicles in Lhuntse Dzongkhag then.  I remember that once the road was blocked for such a long time that the few shops ran out of stock and we had to ask students to get kharang (maize rice) from their home. We even asked for cooking oil from the WFP store. I remember walking couple of times when there was a road block in a place called Rotpashong near Autsho on the way to Mongar.

In spite of all the adversities I took the pleasure in staying in Lhuentse and the memories are still afresh. The school had the classes ranging from Class PP to Class VIII. I got a lot of   experiences with varied responsibilities in the school there. I taught parallel classes with a VSO, Mr. Pete, who instilled in me a lot of work ethics which I still hold. I am very grateful to him for all he had done. Later, when the new primary science curriculum was introduced, I was nominated to attend science workshop and since then I started teaching science. I meet and recognize few students of Lhuntse and they have  made a social group and added me recently.  Lhuentse Junior High School got upgraded to High School and was shifted to Tangmachu, a new location in 1993. But I had to stay back in the same school until August 1997.

When  I reflect back to my initial appointment and  few  years later the NAPE (New  approach to Primary Education) was  followed till class 3 and we had to  follow the manuals  and conduct the  activities serially. Classes 4 and above use to be taught in the  Indian style as most of the  teachers were Indians teaching English, Maths, Science and even History and Geography in the higher classes.   It use to be a stereotype teaching where the  text was taught. I still remember teaching all chapters of Science  Today/ Science is Fun when there was no  Indian teacher. The teaching method changed when the Primary Science Textbooks with  activities  was introduced. 

Now with the  introduction of 21st century  teaching skills and ICT infusion teaching has become a challenging. It must be little  different in rural places  than in the  urban locations. Teachers really need to be  equipped with the modern and 21st century skills to motivate and arise the curiosity of learners to learn otherwise they loose interest in studies and start ignoring the subject. From my experience of teaching  from 1990 to 2021 I have had a multiple  of experience of teaching  various subjects in various  classes. I have been in touch  with so many students who have been working  in different organizations and I have been asking  of their  honest  feedback on my teaching. I have many but  I love to share one of them here. 

I have lot other experiences besides teaching. I visited Guwahati a couple of times to purchase sports items or get the school generator repaired. Once I met with an accident in Louthen Bus while travelling from Samdrupjongkhar to Guwahati and back. The bus’s fore-tyre got punctured when it was at very high speed in Charalie. The bus toppled and plunged into the pool of water beside the road. I was quite conscious and smart enough to catch hold of the hanging bar inside the bus with my left hand and the seat bar with the other hand. However, I managed onto the dry place on the road without getting wet. I can only thank God for He had saved my life. After few minutes, I realized that I had left my plastic bag inside the bus in which I had around Nu.30,000/- cash wrapped in my half gho. When I returned to the top of the bus I was shocked to see through the window that the plastic bag was floating on the water. Thank God! If I had lost that, my salary for more than a year would have gone. I just had my basic pay less than Nu.3000/- then.

I had to encounter another big blow which was more agonizing. My wife was compulsorily retired from the service as she had no census record.  In fact her census had been dropped while transferring to Gelephu from Samste in 1990. Although it was not something that was expected and desired, we lived with the smile on our face but with lot of pain in our heart. With no other alternatives and with heavy heart she remained as a house wife and started taking care of house hold chores.

Stay in Lhuentse taught me how to be self sufficient. As the vegetables of our choice were not available we started growing our own vegetables. We had so much of vegetables grown that anyone whoever visited us never returned empty handed. We grew a variety of vegetable like beans, chilies, lady fingers, brinjal, ridge guard, cucumber, potatoes and many more. On top of that we also raised a mini poultry farm. One cannot believe that we had fifty eight chickens at one time. It was so nice to see them how they were trained to lay eggs inside with the window pane kept open. There was an empty chalk box beside the Dewan and each one to lay egg got inside a box placed. Sometimes when we all had to go outing on Saturdays or Sundays during the day time we could call them back to the coop shouting "Lha Hai Lha Hai" few times and every single chicken would be into the coop. They were let out only for few hours under supervision as they used to be nuisance and destroyed the vegetables. They were also attacked by wild cats and eagles if not kept an eye on them. I remember one day a layer of hen was  badly injured. So we administered indigenous treatment with pure turmeric powder and mustard oil by which the wound dried up and was fit to lay eggs again in a week time . From the things we do we learn a lot.  

Wednesday, January 20, 2021

My childhood and Cherishing Memories.


 I was born in a village called Surey (Jigmechholing after 1992), in Gelephu, Sarpang Bhutan to Laxmi Narayan Kafley and Chhali Maya Kafley of Sandilya gotra, on 2nd August 1968.

The following facts about the family that I have heard from my parents and other elderly relatives would be a good source of knowledge about the ancestry for the generations to come. 

My father is the fourth son out of five sons of my grandparents. A cousin was also included in the family therefore; there were two younger ones with two aunts, both elder to my father.  This consisted a family of eight siblings. The eldest aunt was married to Ghimire from Batiyamari, Behali in north Assam and the younger one was married to Chapagai from Soyang, Ilam in Nepal. 

There had been a very horrifying time for the Kafleys of Surey once. Three brothers (my uncles) (1st, 3rd and 5th) lost their lives during a pendamic that hit Surey in early 60s within a span of few months. My second uncle, Mr. Chhabilal Kafley took up the challenge of bringing up the entire family thereafter.  He had to face many difficulties in doing so for which we honour him with the highest appreciations. Later, when the family members grew up, they got separated. The family of the eldest settled in lower Surey with the eldest son Issorie Kafley, the family of third moved to upper Surey with the eldest son Bhagawat Kafley.  My father married a daughter of Rizal. From her was my elder sister Tekala Dahal. Unfortunately, she could not survive the pandemic and passed away leaving behind my sister Tekala Dahal in the lap of my father.  After the demise of my step mother my dad too had no any other options than to reunite my uncle, Chhabilal. My father said to be someone very honest and obedient. He was given the entire charge of the cowherd far away from the village. My sister who was a little girl then, told me of the experience that she had of the time she spent in the cowshed alone when my father was away to monitor the cows and collect fodder for the calves in the forest. 

Later, he decided to marry again. So, with someone as companion from the village, he set out to the South West looking for a suitable bride and arrived Sipsu. They visited the Bhandari family after knowing that the family had a daughter to be married. My mother, the youngest in the family had been at marriageable age.  It was understood later that none around would ask for her hand as she used to get epilepsy seizure since her childhood. My father wasn't aware of all these and married and brought her to Surey.  The marriage ceremony concluded in a few days time without any grand preparations. It was sometimes in 1966-67. It used to be a kind of formal marriage called "Kumlay Bihay"(marriage just with a bag) that existed those days. I can't imagine! Fortunately, there were no such attacks after her marriage. However, a peculiar symptom reappeared in her later life. Medication was started only later and it got controlled. She is around 70+ and still living a normal life but  needs to take pills to prevent from  attack.

After I was born in 1968, my father thought of settling down by himself. So, he purchased a piece of land from Mr.Acharja with a traditional house in Thewar, presently known as Chaskhar, under Chuzagang  Gewog  now which was called Danabari Block in Gelephu then. It is nearer to Shemgang-Trongsa highway than to the Gewog centre, Danabari. This migration took place sometimes in the beginning of 1969. 

I don't remember my childhood days but my neighbour Mrs Basnet (Kul Bdr's mother) still remembers it very clearly. She says that I used to be kept in a kennel like structure to make sure that I didn't move around as there was no one to look after me when I was a child. I used to be kept like that because my parents and my elder sister had to attend farm animals, collect fodder for animals, contribute and participate in farming  activities and also fetch water which was about 10 minutes walk  from the house. Mrs Basnet still talks about the innocence and quietness before I was taken out of the kennel and my behaviour after I was out, on all messenger conversations till date. However, I don't reminisce any of these incidents. 

My house in Thewar ( Newly named Chaskhar) 
Four  siblings ( Keshav, Sudarshan, Dilli and Om
My Parents with my sister Yashoda

Dad , Keshav, Yadavi, Abi and Bhawana
We are altogether twelve siblings. Six of us are brothers and six sisters. Some of our pictures are attached below.  I am the tallest in the picture and on the left is my second sister Yeshiva, in front of her is Keshav Kafley (second brother), on his right and in front of me is Januka (third sister), on her right is Sudarshan (third brother), tallest on the first row is Yamani (fourth sister), on her left is Abi Narayan (fourth brother) and bedside him on the left is Dilliram (fifth brother). Tekala Dahal (eldest sister) Damodari (fifth sister) Sabitra (sixth sister) and the youngest brother Om Kafley are missing in the picture.


I vividly remember my first school where I started my education. It was in a low land between Limbutar and Thewar on the bank of Masanay khola below Adhikari's house and above Khadalnee's. It was a privately opened community school run by a teacher. I imprecisely remember few teachers of those days. They were Mr. Nepal, Mr Magal Gurung and Mr. Madhav Prasad Khanal whom I located and communicated with recently.  The school fees used to be Nu. 3/- per month and a Maanu (a traditional measuring container to measure grain) of rice. I remember learning ABCD, multiplication tables and the names of seasons of the year. I do not remember more than going to school and coming back with some of my friends who are now scattered all around the globe.  Most of them are in touch and we talk for hours and cherish our memories. Childhood memories are very powerful and cannot be forgotten.

I remember one of the incidences of those school days. One day, when  I came back from school, I was served rice by my father with freshly boiled ghee, few spoons of self harvested honey, milk and rice. I enjoyed it. Later in the evening I got a kind of hallucinations where I carried the kerosene lamp and wanted to go out. When I think of it now it must have been because of the honey. I didn't realize it but blamed that warm fresh heated ghee. I didn't eat ghee for nearly ten to fifteen years thereafter. I didn't like the smell even but later, slowly, I developed liking in its taste. 

The land between the Aie Bridge and the Thewar Khola (present Shershong area) used to be covered with dense forest. We used to have cows, numbering not less than fifty altogether. We used to set them free into that forest and sit on a rock just above the river bank, waiting for them to return in the evening and stop them there until all came back. I also remember taking the cows to the mountains and keeping them there for some days.  I have memories of staying there in the cow shed during my vacations with Thapa Daju. Thapa Daju was the backbone of the family in upbringing up all of we siblings in my family. Let me narrate howThapa Daju came to our house and became an important member of our family. He was found on a railway platform by my grandmother and uncle on their way to Gelephu from Sibsoo. There was no direct bus to travel from Gelephu to Sibsoo those days. One had to take a train to Kokrajhar in Assam from Nagarkata in West Bengal.  It was a win win situation for both Thapa Daju and us as we had no one to support the family after my elder sister got married and had to leave for her in-law’s house. Thapa Daju had no place live and at the same time we were in need of someone to support us. He was never taken as someone who was there to work for us  but was a family member. He was with us for a long time before he left to work and earn for himself in 1990.  We loved and miss him a lot. I met him once in Phuentsholing and he told me that he was taking care of cows of a Dasho somewhere in Kabretaar. After that I haven’t met him again. I am still looking for his whereabouts so that I could support him in a way during his old age as he has no one other than us. His name was Ram Bahadur Thapa. 

The forest between Aie bridge and Thewar Khola that used to be our pasture land for our cattle got cleared for resettlement of the people from Tongsa and Shemgang in early eighties. Houses were built with proper water supply and toilets. Hundreds of people got resettlement in Shershong, Norbuling, Pemaling and Kingaling. Government opened a primary school near Shershong village in a bamboo hut near Aie Bridge and another in Norbuling above Phanphane. The private school where I was enrolled got shut down when a government school came up. I was in class 3 then but when I migrated to government primary school I was admitted in class 2. Although the walking distance to school was forty-five minutes, it was not at all a burden to walk those days. I remember getting WFP food for two meals in the school since then. I remember of Thueb (porridge) of a nutritious mixture of roasted flour for breakfast. Sometimes we used to be served with tea and other times knead and made into ball and served with tea. Lunch used to be of boiled SFB (wheat and soya ground into pieces which looked like Dalia) with potato curry and dry fish gifted by Norway in huge wooden boxes.  I used to be a pure vegetarian until then but had no other options rather than to start eating and slowly developed the taste. I still remember getting all stationeries at school including a pen with a nib attached to a wooden holder. We used to get this holder and ink tablets for students above class II.  Pencil was only for Upper KG, Lower KG and class I. We had to put a tablet in a small bottle and dip the nib to write. I remember collecting injection vials to carry ink from the nearby newly established Basic Health Unit. We had to dip the pen nib every after few alphabets written. Ink  pen was affordable only by the wealthy ones in the higher grades. Later, during eighties came the refillable pens and the Chinese pens in abundance of different cost and quality in the shops. 

After few years, the school was relocated on the hillock, near Thewar Khola which was just twenty minutes walk. I used to be liked by most of the teachers and they trusted me too. I was clever and sharp and good at studies. I remember being taught by Mr.Kesang Wangchuck, Head Master, from Tangsibji village in Trongsa, Mr. Kharel, a white haired gentleman, from Tsirang , Mr. D.B.Tamang from Dhajay in Tsirang and Mr. H.D.Saha from West Bengal. I used to be asked to stay with some of the teachers at school and I did that with many. I remember staying with Mr. Kharel, Mr. Shah during my primary schooling and even remember staying with teachers during my high school days when I was supposed to stay in hostel. I don't know what made me to do this. 

I never feared to travel alone during my childhood. I remember travelling to Phuentsholing alone with a letter from my teacher Mr. Shah to the Education Store Officer Mr. Sarkar. Very smartly, I asked for the location of the person I had to stay with, located him and stayed with him there. It was a Bangali family working in Central Workshop whom I never met before.  Stayed with the family for a week and got back to school on a truck, delivering the school stationeries from Education Store Phuentsholing. I was in Class IV then. I also remember taking up a challenge to take my mother from Gelephu to Sibsoo to meet her mother. I got mixed up with Gairkatta and Nagarkata. Instead of getting down in Nagarkata I got down in Gairkatta and landed in Samchi that evening. There was no means of transport from Samchi to Sibsoo then.  It was already getting dark and had to look for a shelter there.  When I looked for hotels there was none. I talked to someone in a small shop and I remember Mr. Pradhan, who owned the shop, had his house above the existing Shiv temple. He was kind enough to give us shelter that night. I don't remember what we ate that evening as I remember my mom wouldn’t eat anything. It was during the winter vacation after I passed Class VI. 

After I completed my primary school I was placed to Trongsa Junior High School. I was lucky that Mr. Kesang Wangchuck, my headmaster too, got his transfer to Tshangkha PS near Tongsa. I accompanied him to my new school in Tongsa with him. I have had another experience away from home for the first time to rural central Bhutan. The experience was in Tshangkha village before I was escorted to my school. It was about the type of meal we were served with which I was not used to with. I had to adjust and survive with pancakes of bitter buckwheat and suja for some days. It was a different cross cultural exchange.

I was liked by everyone in the community since my childhood and I am still in touch with all the  elder ones and ones of my age level although they are scattered around the  world for better.. I was brave and forward from my childhood days. I remember influencing the neighbours for evening gathering to perform Bhajan-Kirtan (devotional choir). Even elderly people used to ask me to lead Deusi Bhailo which was very much popular those days.  I used to read Sostani Katha and  Ramayana from my childhood days and knew the epic well. This continued for  as long as I was in my village before I left the locality for my further studies and work. Later, I came to know that the team bought a set of musical instruments and necessary items required by the community with the collection from the performance. I studied Nepali in my village private till Class III and a little bit in Class IV and V in Primary School. With that much of formal learning, I remember reading Swasthani to the family in the evening, as and when a month long Swasthani puja used to be performed. It used to take place during the winter vacations. Almost every house used to have Swasthani Puja and that used to be something everyone would get together in the evening with Bhajan Kirtan and dances after the tiring day.  I too had visit houses with Naag on Naag Panchami and Kush on Kusay Ausie. Cash collection and money was not of that much value but the  family and the community bond was. But still it use to be some pocket money for me. I cherish those beautiful memories. 

                                                       A Bhajan Kirtan that I use  to lead.



One of the most fascinating things that I remember today is that I was the one who used to own a camera in the village for the first time. I still have some pictures which might cost a thousand dollars if asked. Those were the golden if not diamond memories of my childhood. 


My father's share of land in Surey, sharing the border with uncle, was only a small paddy field.  I remember of having given that land to my sister (Tekala Dahal) to cultivate as the land they owned was not very suitable for growing rice.  They got bifurcated from the family members and had to live on their own. They were settled in upper Surey. It was cultivated until the flood washed away everyone except me to a distant land. I can still see that house upright where I was born which was my uncle's. This has been sold off and someone else lives here. I even remember the Registration number (Tharm No. 121) of the paddy field we owned in Surey. It was because I remember paying the taxes a couple of times.


Friday, January 15, 2021

Fighting a war against covid and contributing towards self sufficiency.

COVID-19 hit Bhutan very badly from the beginning of 2020. The most hit were the educational institutions, service industries like hotels, restaurants and  other travel and tourism  sectors. 

School closed from the first week of March with online teaching using different versions of social medias like WeChat, WhatsApp and Google classroom. It was little hectic to streamline these in the beginning, but, everything was taken care in due course of time.  
Scarcity of vegetables and fruits with the international boarder  closed was  major concern of everyone during the pandemic. Staying home was what everyone could only contribute  to fight against the deadly virus at this juncture.

In addition to what I  could  contribute during the pandemic, I thought I  could  make better use of the little space in the apple garden  nearby owned by one of our relatives by growing what is possible. We grew few vegetables like potatoes and beans from the time we shifted to this apartment but not with much interest . But, with the spread of  pandemic  and closure of School, I felt I should also contribute to  self sufficiency. 

Lettuce and coriander growing in a milk foil container
 
Keeping these contributing factors in mind, I concentrated in growing some vegetables during my off hours. My interest in growing vegetables boosted with the greenery and the yield I harvested which further motivated to add more varieties later. To my surprise at one point of time I counted and there where around 17 (seventeen) varieties of vegetables available there. The Pictures can be seen linked below.

Ref:        https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=1ZYclrOaHkAg2MvqixfcTnNPq8Tzd06EP

In addition to what I was already doing, I developed a small space between the building and the retaining wall into a garden. I also collected some soil and started to grow some plants in  old buckets, wooden boxes, flower pots and other containers.

Ref:         https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=1ZYclrOaHkAg2MvqixfcTnNPq8Tzd06EP

We grew Dallay  and other Indian variety of chillies,  Dhania, spinach and  tomatoes in the containers. They were placed around the house besides the drain.  It was so much of fun to spend time when it was already risky travelling somewhere, visiting vegetable market ,friends and relatives during the pandemic. 
We grew so much that we shared what we grew with neighbourhood. We enjoyed harvesting each of them. We grew so much that we didn't buy any vegetables from the time we started to harvest from March till mid December with some preserved in the deepfreeze. We had difficult during the first lockdown to nurture them as the  garden fell in another zone, but we somehow managed. At last when it was difficult to bear the cold frost of December,  we plucked what ever Saag was available and processed it into Gundruk. It turned to be yummy too.

Ref:     https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=1ZYclrOaHkAg2MvqixfcTnNPq8Tzd06EP

I feel it would be better if the  government  encourages and support the use of small  empty spaces within  the colonies in the city to grow something that is possible by developing spaces alongside. These spaces would not only be safe from the unwanted growth but  also prevent and bar those living nearby who dispose rubbish unethically. This would certainly contribute towards self sufficiency and keep those retired  individuals living in the apartments with no land  to keep themselves occupied.